Many women don't put their hat in the ring or reach for lofty goals until they are overqualified. After experiencing highs and lows while launching The Cru, I've realized that when you do face failure or don't get what you want, you're forced into asking yourself some poignant questions: Why did I want this to begin with? Whose help do I need to get there? What do I need to reach my goals? If you don't let losing stop you, losing will propel you forward.