In honor of this week's paperback release of Drop the Ball, here's your Cliffs Notes to the book. People always ask me," What balls can I drop immediately?" My full answer is that you need to take time to get clear about what matters most to you, what's your highest and best use, and think about how you can engage others to get it all done. But some women are so overwhelmed they can't even find the time to do this. Sometimes you need to take a shortcut to see the bigger picture. Here's an exercise to get you there.