A few years ago, I was completely stressing out about a potential job offer that would relocate my family. I asked my mentors for advice, and you know what they said? Don't even think about it until you have the offer in hand. I know I'm not the only women who overanalyzes all my options and gets stressed out decisions I don't even have to make. Here's what I learned: Spend all that thinking time generating options and not stressing out over them.