Listen up, everyone: The Mommy Wars Are Over. I'm saying it right now. The reality is that all mothers are working. Some of us are paid; some of us are not paid. The term "stay-at-home mom" is so antiquated—what mom who doesn't have an "office job" is really staying at home all day? These are the women who pick up a lot of my dropped balls. I couldn't do what I do without them and I am forever grateful.